Oral Sex – An art

 

Oral Sex I’m pretty sure I don’t need to explain, we all pretty much know what it is right? I thought so.

Other than the sex act itself, Oral Sex is the next best thing. *wink* But knowing what you’re doing and how to do it right, is what we’re here for.

So let’s talk about Oral Sex and ways to do it shall we?  Now, I know there are people out there that don’t engage in oral sex, I had a boyfriend once that was like that. Weird? Yes, but to each his own.

I must tell you that oral sex is a two way street, don’t expect a blow job if you won’t go down on your lady and vice versa.

What’s good for the goose is good for the gander! And a lot more fun!

So, to start, let it be known that I am no expert at this.

But I’ve been doing it for a lot of years, and one thing is consistent–all men are not the same in what they enjoy and what they do not.

For instance, I’ve never come across a man that didn’t like being deep-throated, that is pretty constant, at least with the people I know.

 

Below I will give you what I’ve learned to be the basics of a good fellatio session.

 

Step one

Get in a comfortable position.

above him,

straddling him,

lying next to him,

on your knees in front,

lying in between his legs on your belly (one of my favourites)

whatever works for you and is most comfortable because it can get uncomfortable working that cock after a while, we don’t want that.

Step two

Make sure your mouth is moist and there’s a lot of saliva present, if not, take a drink of something and swish it around to moisten up.

The first thing I do is play with the balls, watch him react, and then go in for the kill.

If you’re inexperienced at this, just think of it as a nice candy cane, and how do you lick a candy cane?

You put the whole thing into your mouth.

Take in as much of his tool as you can, some of us have a gag reflex that won’t let us deep-throat but we can get pretty close.

While you’ve got your hot, moist mouth on his cock, be sure to use some tongue action, licking and sucking at the same time sometimes sends them off the edge.

A lot of guys like the hand rubbing up and down the shaft too, so don’t forget about the hand.

Step three

How is he reacting so far?

Did that little flick of your tongue just under his head make him come off the bed?

Then keep doing it sister!

From what I’ve learned, and the multiple friends I’ve given blow jobs to, have said that just under the rim of the head is the most sensitive, so I take advantage of that every chance I get.

Be sure to watch his reactions, a lot of guys don’t make much noise, but their faces can tell the story.

Look up on occasion to see how they’re doing, and don’t be afraid to ask.

Step four or the finale

Depends on how long you’ve been at it, and how close he is to coming.

As long as you’re both enjoying it, and can keep going, take it all the way home! Keep doing what you’re doing, and give him your best.

Swallowing or spitting is a personal choice, do whatever feels right.  Don’t forget that if you’re using your hand, be sure it’s lubricated often, the friction can become painful if you’re rubbing him with a dry hand or dry mouth.

When you’re finished and he’s finished, clean him up with your mouth, but beware, some guys will get hard again that fast and it’s up and at ‘em again!

 

Hopefully this helps you a little if you want to try oral sex on your partner.

He will love whatever you do and however you do it, Enjoy! techniques dsidsj